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The 20 Most Exciting BDSM Toys For Couples – Guidebook

You want to bring a little variety into your love life and want something new? Then BDSM toys are just the thing for you. With them you are guaranteed to experience erotic moments and intense climaxes.

First, we have a checklist for you, where you can learn everything about BDSM toys. In our product recommendations we have already linked some of the best toys for you. For sure you will also find a toy there, which excites you.

BDSM Toys Checklist

Meaning
  • BDSM stands for bondage, dominance (discipline) as well as sadism and machoism, among other things.
  • Meant are sex practices in which it is a little harder. But BDSM is much more. There is a mental and physical connection that makes sex so intense.
  • A prerequisite for BDSM sex is good communication. It is also recommended to use a safeword.
  • Among other things, BDSM sex includes role-playing, some also live it in everyday life according to certain rules.
  • But also bondage games, whips, love swings, nipple clamps and the like belong to it.
Variations and Toys
  • If you have just started with BDSM or you want to let yourself go slowly, it is recommended to buy single toys. For advanced users there are also bondage sets.
  • At the beginning, restraints (e.g. ropes, handcuffs, chains, leashes and collars, jackets, suits) are good for fixing. This way you can approach slowly.
  • If you like it a bit harder, you can also try out hitting (e.g. with a whip).
  • Givingcommands and punishing (e.g. make you wait, break off shortly before orgasm, hitting, …) also belongs to the BDSM area. So you can also be brought mentally to climax.
  • There are many other ways to live out BDSM. For example, in everyday life or just during sex.
  • It is important that you and your partner trust each other.
Safety
  • Set the rules before you start. It is important to know how far your partner or yourself are allowed to go. It is also recommended to use a safeword (stop word). This way you can tell each other if it gets too much. As soon as the word is mentioned, all actions are stopped. You should not necessarily use a word like “stop” or “stop it”. These may be part of the excitement. The traffic light system is recommended. When red is said, it means to stop immediately.
  • Only use lube that is suitable for the appropriate practices and materials. It is usually recommended to use a water-based lube.
  • The chosen BDSM partner should be trustworthy and respectful.
  • You should take care of yourself and not go beyond your own limits to please others.

Here you can find the top 20 most popular BDSM toys for couples.

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The Best Sellers Of BDSM Toys For Couples

We have compiled the most popular BDSM toys for couples for you in this bestseller list.

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Current Offers For BDSM Toys For Couples

Here you will find a selection of offers that are currently available in the area of BDSM toys for couples.

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FAQ About BDSM Toys

What is BDSM?

BDSM is an abbreviation for bondage, dominance/discipline, sadism/submission and masochism. So it is a collective term for many different (mostly sexual) types of play and practices. This includes commands, restraints, punishments or even beatings. It is important that rules are set beforehand so as not to seriously hurt anyone or cross personal boundaries. In short, BDSM is a mostly erotic type of play around the themes of power and submission. These practices can be performed in varying intensities.

Which BDSM toy?

Which BDSM toy is suitable depends on personal preferences. Both partners:inside must agree with the use. Since there is now a huge range, there is something for almost everyone. In our product recommendations we have listed the most popular BDSM toys.

Why BDSM?

BDSM can be a new possibility for you in sexual intercourse. You don’t have to start with the extreme, but you can easily approach it. BDSM can be a nice change for you and your sex life and may be a breath of fresh air.

BDSM: how to start?

At the beginning you should start slowly and not directly try out the hardest things. Small whips and bondage are recommended for beginners.

Wolfgang lives with his family in Stuttgart. He has a twelve-year-old daughter and five-year-old twins. When he's not writing product guides for Elternkompass and sharing his experiences with you, he likes to go on bike tours, play Monopoly or read novels.